Thursday, July 21, 2005
Hi guys, I'm not feeling so well today. Kinda down with flu and so went to see TCM(Traditional chinese medicine) docter. He said its in the intitial stage of flu, any later and it would have developed into a full blown flu virus. So well, I choose the right time. Though I should say its seems to be the season for flu as I saw quite a few kid and adults suffering from flu syndrome. So guys, take care man, dun fall sick. Drats, must be the chilli padi I ate that day while having steamboat at home. Now must control abit liaoz, I wana get well soon man. Feeling sick is not such a great feeling.
Anyway, I'm having recording tomorrow in the morning. So fun, first recording session of my "career" hahaha..... Oh, by the way, I'm in the mood to talk alittle about communication with friends, not from a socialogist's point of view but mine.
Well, I think first making a friend is don't try too hard to fit in with your new friends, coz sometimes when you try too hard, people might get turned off by you. Think about it, would you think the new friends know that you are a talkative fella, by talking too much one might be seen as irritating. Similarly, one should adopt different methods in making friends, one would not use the same skill on two different persons as they have too different point of view and needs. So by using the same skill it might backfire although it may be a good method. And I think one should let friends see their true colours and not use a artificial front when making friends although most are not comfortable in revealing too much of themselves, that is good for the person by not revealing too much just as one would while chatting online keeping identities secrect, however, that may pose a down side to the whole process of friend making. Because they might have made friends with you on your first impression and upon furthur interaction, they might isolate you as you may not be the kind of person that you seems to be.
Lastly, I think one should not imposed too much of their own ideas on others, what you think is right might not be seen as so by another person. And seriously, I think it turns yourself off if someone were to do it to you. Most importantly though, one should be most true to their identity and not mimick someone else who might seems to hang out better with the others. As sometimes, one is enough. Thus, it would be best to always have one's own style. Just as what I always say, two person are never the same. So yup, that my idea of interaction between friends. Cheers
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